Disclosure... it's like a freezing cold pool,you know it's less hazardous if you just jump right in and get it over with. But at the same time some days you feel like the initial freeze isn't even worth it, so you don't even get your toes wet. —Shawn
告知他人的原则
假如感染了HIV,你应该告诉哪些人?同样的,假如发生了重大事情,你应该优先告诉谁?
从下面的文字中我总结了几点原则:
1.你是否掌握了事件的全部信息?
2.选择告知的媒介。是口头还是电话、短信?
3.A是否守口如瓶?
4.事件与被A有无直接关系?
5.你想从被A身上获得什么?
6.如果隐瞒,结果是否可控? Keep in mind this can be a very difficult process, even for those who have been aware of their status for years.
— Am I in a safe situation? A comfortable place? Do you have enough time to really talk about this? Do you have privacy?
— Is this something I feel comfortable talking about over the phone?
— Is this something I would want to talk about over the phone, or should I make arrangements to see this person?
— Is this person likely to be supportive of me? How have they dealt with other similar issues in the past?
— Will this person hurt me physically or emotionally if I tell them?
— What do I hope to get out of telling this person?
—Is this someone with whom I have had sex or shared needles, who might be infected but not know it?
—*- Will I worry more if I don't tell this person?
— Will this person feel hurt if I don't tell them, because they would want to help?
— Can I trust this person to keep the information to themselves?
— Does this person need to know so that I can get the best medical care or social services I may need?
由RamDisk引发的混乱
为了保护硬盘,把RAM当DISK的RamDisk软件成为了我的选择,但是当我使用它后,一些奇怪的事情发生了;
首先是一些软件无法启动:Event事件管理器显示“Cannot create the process for package 4****** because an error was encountered while launching. [LaunchProcess]”,重装、更新也无法解决;
然后是Edge下载的文件无法“仅打开”:一般下载的文件有三个选项“Open”“Save”和“Save As...”,但是我点击Open却没有任何反应;
最后是Steam游戏无法启动,这些问题让我意识到我的电脑出现了问题。
通过一些时间的故障排除,我发现问题出在了RamDisk上;或者准确来说,是其中“使用物理内存(AWE)”的选项上,一旦我取消勾选,上面的问题便不复存在。
至于他们之间有什么关联,还需待我挖掘